
While they are undoubtedly misguided, there is undeniable value of out  gay and lesbian conservative organizations within the larger gay  movement.
Openly gay conservatives support the Republicans'  agenda and stand against the Democratic platform both financially and  through volunteering.  The two largest of these organizations are  GOProud and Log Cabin Republicans, and these groups' 
raison d'etre  is fundamentally subordinating civil equality to signature conservative  stances such as limited government, individual liberty and national  defense.
Recently, at a gay conservative fundraiser for GOProud, the audience posed tough questions for 
Ann Coulter  over gay rights. The organization was, well, Proud to have her as their  special guest and even deemed her "the Judy Garland of the Right" (not  100% sure who should be insulted by that title).
Does the existence of these organizations hurt or actually help the LGBTQ Movement?
They  clearly provide a much different political outlet for some in the Gay  Community, and that can be a very good change.  The more the public sees  how diverse gays and lesbians really are, the more they will see their  sexuality as just another facet of their lives, rather than the defining  facet.  The staunch Republican working with the gay conservative on a  common ground issue such as advancing the idea of limited government  would presumably realize that gays are not necessarily political  enemies.
Also, through cooperation on a campaign, they may even  learn to see homosexuality for what it truly is: a healthy expression of  the human experience.  Therefore, organizations like GOProud are  uniquely positioned to reach out to a significant part of the American  population that other gay groups cannot.
On the other hand, the  diversification of political expressions for gays and lesbian that these  groups represent can be a weakness.  The damage to the Gay Community  caused by infighting over the status of gay conservative groups is  self-evident.  A political and social movement fighting amongst  themselves severely weakens their effectiveness.  The presence of gay  conservative groups, as well as their vocal detractors within the Gay  Community, compromises the overall goal of equality.
The  divergent activities of gay conservatives and the mainstream gay-rights  movement also undermines the bigger picture.  How much longer will the  battle for equal rights take when GOProud donated and volunteered for  John McCain while more mainstream gay political action groups did the  same for Barack Obama?  True, both candidates were against gay marraige  but politcal groups of the Gay Community would have more of an impact on  politicians if they all worked together on one candidate.  Since gays  and lesbians are s minority group, it is only logical that they pool  their resources together in order to have the maximize impact in  politics.
To many within the Gay Community, civil rights trump  all other issues.  It is not that gays are single-issue voters but  rather the suffering they have to endure as a direct result of  inequality comes before any other political concern.  Civil rights  becomes the trump card when voting, and this is why many are enraged by  gay conservatives.  In some cases, they are considered worse than  ordinary conservatives because they are perceived as betrayers of their  own kind.
Yet groups like GOProud and Log Cabin Republicans are  not the Judases of the Gay Community. They have decided, like countless  other political groups throughout history, that the integrity of the  State comes before civil rights.  To them, this integrity means limiting  government and maintaining an overwhelmingly strong defense. Their  position is not unique and their political positions fall within reason.   Indeed in terms of history, the position of mainstream gays are the  true anomalies.  Conservative gays are not suffering from internalized  homophobia, they are simply expressing their beliefs.  While they can,  and frankly must, vehemently disagree, the mainstream gay political  groups must also treat gay conservatives as equals.
Under pain of  disunity, this basic divide must some how be bridged by all within the  Gay Community.  A reasonable, realistic perspective is absolutely  urgent.  Mainstream gays must accept the existence and legitimacy of gay  conservatives and work within this reality.  Many conservative gays  have ample time and money that can be used to advance equality, and all  of them have valid viewpoints so long as they do not directly advocate  inequality.  However, the conservative gay groups must stop supporting  candidates that are overtly anti-equality such as John McCain.
In  order for real change to occur, the Gay Community as a whole must stop  advocating for one party over the other and advocate for individual  candidates that support gay rights.  If mainstream gay political groups  expect to work with gay conservatives, then they must compromise. As a  result, more candidates could become more conducive towards equality. If  enough do, then the party platforms will follow.  Gay conservative  groups are certainly legitimate, if misguided.  In this modern age,  there still should be enough room for the whole Gay Community to work  together, and if there isn't then they need to learn to change. I hope  our society will come to a time when both parties are for full civil  rights and the Gay Community has the luxury of dividing itself over  economic and national defense matters.